There is a very big difference between having a hold of someone's shirt and standing behind them with both of your arms around them. Every player in the box definitely does not do that.
Rice was stupid, and we got lucky that VAR intervened and the ref had the balls to overturn it.
It was never a penalty, but had it been given I would have blamed Rice for being stupid.
Also not convinced on the penalty we were given. It was either a pen or a very good dive by Merino, not sure which.