Being serious for a second. it's actually legitimately getting on my nerves now

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Or Option 3, which is what I did.

But then I was not married.

What you get up to at work would be none of the wife's business in any case. Vice versa too; what she gets up to is equally none of her husband's business. Either you both want the money or you don't and whatever you have to do to keep earning it is fair enough.