I shall be meeting my father-in-law for the first time on Saturday

[redgunamo]

Oh, I couldn't really give a shït what he thinks of me. I just don't want the wife upset, so want things to go well for her.

He's on his third or fourth wife - I forget which - so he's hardly in a position to judge anyone else's eligibility.

Yes, that's what I mean. Let him who is without sin and a' that.

And, crucially, he is not paying for you.