Too late to do anything about it now though, I suppose. He can surely have no real complaints though, in any case; you have a job and you plainly do not wipe your mouth with your sleeve. Looked at properly, in-laws do not really expect much better than that.
Oh, I couldn't really give a shït what he thinks of me. I just don't want the wife upset, so want things to go well for her.
He's on his third or fourth wife - I forget which - so he's hardly in a position to judge anyone else's eligibility.