Does your Mrs want kids?
I suppose you either put up with all the **** that goes with having kids, or you risk dying alone
“Other clubs never came into my thoughts once I knew Arsenal wanted to sign me.”
They are never really difficult, at least mine weren't. Even the 'sleepless nights' bit was a nonsense, I remember none of those. Some interrupted sleep? Sure, but that was easy enough to get used to.
Kids are a joy, I wish mine were young again. Teenagers are not a joy. Now I can't wait for them to leave.