Sometimes I visit friends of ours who have recently had kids

[Pokster]

they look exhausted, miserable, broke, on the verge of divorce,

Yet they insist that we should have a kid. And when I say you are a good example of not having one they get offended

Then they say it's the greatest thing.
Then I say I've just been on holiday and they look sad.

You either want kids, and take all the negatives and positives that go with it, as they will change your home and social life forever.
Or you don't want kids, and are happy with the life you have. It isn't a half hearted decision

[Pat Vegas]

You either want kids, and take all the negatives and positives that go with it, as they will change your home and social life forever.
Or you don't want kids, and are happy with the life you have. It isn't a half hearted decision

It annoys me when people insist. Every single time they keep talking about it. I feel for this particular couple the baby is a distraction to fill other voids.

[IUFG]

You either want kids, and take all the negatives and positives that go with it, as they will change your home and social life forever.
Or you don't want kids, and you will be very happy with life. It isn't a half hearted decision

corrected your post for you, p

[Burney]

You either want kids, and take all the negatives and positives that go with it, as they will change your home and social life forever.
Or you don't want kids, and are happy with the life you have. It isn't a half hearted decision

I don't remember any decision at all. She seems to be turning out alright, though.