Christmas gifts. Do you and your other half keep it a secret or do you tell each

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Mine wanted a handbag and purse but has now taken to using a fjällraven backpack. Of course this is after I spent a decent chunk on said purse and handbag

Yeah, best stick to perfume, lingerie and jewellery. And lots of flowers. In fact, the more frivolous, the better, unless it's a new car.

Anything else is simply asking for trouble.