Thanks AWIMB, you just got interesting again

[Peter]

Sorry B, I couldn't resist it. I gave myself an open goal as I worked through the list so it was only right I tapped it in.

Strangely I found myself agreeing with you 100% when I read through all of P's troubles over my lunch. But of course we don't or at least didn't know the full story and what promises he had made in the earlier days. As a couple they set an agreement that wouldn't leave her exposed for not being on the deeds, so good on P for sticking to that.

Thanks for that. So many people have told me I am crazy for sticking to an explicit and precise promise. Emotional commitment is an intention and is mutual. A financial commitment is wholly different. Stitching her up over the house is just not something I would consider.

[redgunamo]

Thanks for that. So many people have told me I am crazy for sticking to an explicit and precise promise. Emotional commitment is an intention and is mutual. A financial commitment is wholly different. Stitching her up over the house is just not something I would consider.

The promise was made for your protection as much as hers, do you mean?