Where in Ware b, Where? Is this local ?
It's on the way into Hoddesdon on the parade of shops just before the BP garage.
https://pierosdeli.co.uk/
You simply have to learn to operate your tool correctly
If it's not getting hot enough you probably need more air, I'd have thought, so open your vents further - but I don't have experience of offset smokers so I can't be specific.
Have a look at 20 or 30 of these sorts of videos. You'll pick up tips from all of them.
Why on earth would a "high end" steak house be able to cook steak better than you can at home?
Of course they can't. They can never get the cooking or the sauce just as close to how I like as I can myself. And that's before you get to having my fave cuts or even the race. How often do you get offered charolais fillet tournedos over here? You can buy them in packets in the supermarkets in France.
And they don't use 2 tbps of creme fraiche to a whole roquefort like I do, which means I have tons to dip up with a baguette during cooking and after munching.
B's right on this - it's the social thing. It means you and your mates can eat outside without whichever of you is cooking that day spending most of time alone in the kitchen.