your ear I must say I am puzzled as to why falling victim to a manipulative harridan as I did, this make me a narcissist.
However, your sagacity is beyond dispute in this place so I'll concede it must be so and I shall repair to the psychiatrist's couch forthwith. It will doubtless cost me an arm and a leg to discover the root cause is my father's cruelty and my mother's pendulous great wossnames.