
You can't seriously be suggesting that in - say - the 1940s or '50s anyone sane would have considered going out in an item of clothing explicitly celebrating the deaths of 96 people, can you? We have become a much more rude, solipsistic and obnoxious society and therein lies the root of the problem. As you know, I'm happy to blame PC for lots of things, but this ain't one of them. As with so many things, the Baby Boomer generation has a lot to answer for.
Yes, but you are unusual (in a nice way) and our sense of these things has become so calloused by years of seeing things like a major high street brand plaster 'FCUK' all over its clothes or by people wearing 'funny' t-shirts, that most people barely notice anything unless it's outrageously offensive these days.
Actually, I'd lay that one squarely at the door of the Baby Boomers. It was their generation who decided it was more important to mock things than to respect them. Unfortunately, once you start to regard the mockery of things others hold dear as a virtue, you by extension are mocking, deriding and denigrating not merely institutions, but the people who believe in them. Now whether that institution is the Church, the Monarchy, the military, the Government, someone else's football team, school, class or whatever, you are making a virtue of offence and, once you start down the road of saying that offence in any form is good, all bets are effectively off.
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Here's one of the early adopters
Sure, but too many things changed too quickly and all sorts of babies went out with the bathwater. To take your example, there's a big difference between deciding that, on balance, it's probably wrong to lock up or chemically castrate people for participation in sexual acts between consenting adults and thinking that it's OK for some bloke to march up and down a high street in a t-shirt saying "I LOVE SUCKING COCK!", but unfortunately, the two things have become conflated as though they were one issue. This means that someone who objects to the latter is going to be accused of effectively objecting to the former. That is wrong, but it is a case of the baby going out with the bathwater.