People have suggested I grow up in the past.

[redgunamo]

Would be a bit more realistic to suggest that you grow up in the future tbh. Not much we can do about the past.

That's half the trouble. Rather than this shrugging of the shoulders and saying "Bof!", what we can do is recognise our mistakes and try to rectify them as best we can while promising ourselves and everybody else that we won't make them again.

The modern fashion though, of course, is to continue behaving, and believing, in a way that we have demonstrated does not work. We don't admit our failure, we merely blame others for it; we take no responsibilty for it ourselves #snowflakes