On a personal level, do you have any outlet for your feelings? I mean, can you express this stuff at home or with friends?
Its important to be able to vent.....
Oh yes, I’m always being brazenly racist in front of the missus. To my credit, sometimes I’ll wait until the kids have gone to bed.
Our bedtime listening is often a podcast hosted by Glenn Loury and John McWorter, two black American academics who discuss a lot of these issues.
I’m sure they’d be keen to hear you call them racist for their views on absent fathers.