Peter .. this sounds like the fury of a woman scorned. You didn't get caught playing

[Herbert Augustus Chapman]

away did you? And furthermore, I thought your lady was a nice jewish girl?

[Peter]

away did you? And furthermore, I thought your lady was a nice jewish girl?

You've hit the right issue but identified the wrong culprit.....

I would have had the decenency to make sure she never found out.....

[Herbert Augustus Chapman]

Oh it is undoubtedly all your fault. You forced her to cheat on you with your mental cruelty and neglect y' see?

[Peter]

Oh it is undoubtedly all your fault. You forced her to cheat on you with your mental cruelty and neglect y' see?

Something like that :)

I also made the whole thing difficult simply by existing. I can be unreasonable like that.

[SWv2]

Something like that :)

I also made the whole thing difficult simply by existing. I can be unreasonable like that.

Based on the evidence presented to me I see that a) you broke her heart and b) you did this two weeks before the Xmas.

[redgunamo]

Based on the evidence presented to me I see that a) you broke her heart and b) you did this two weeks before the Xmas.

Even earlier than that, I'd say; years ago when he declined to make an honest woman of her. All bets are off, at that point. Even hanging about for much longer than twenty minutes after is simply asking for trouble.

[Peter]

Based on the evidence presented to me I see that a) you broke her heart and b) you did this two weeks before the Xmas.

I will be in Dublin 01-03 march, rather drunk. I'll be happy to talk you through how incredibly generous I have been throughout this and what a thoroughly decent human being I am.

I will be quite drunk though...

[redgunamo]

I will be in Dublin 01-03 march, rather drunk. I'll be happy to talk you through how incredibly generous I have been throughout this and what a thoroughly decent human being I am.

I will be quite drunk though...

Are you quite drunk right now, P?

[Peter]

Are you quite drunk right now, P?

No, I'm actually in a meeting :)

[Burney]

Are you quite drunk right now, P?

So she’s a raging narcissist/psychopath who made your life hell, she’s threatening you with all manner of mentalness, she cuckolded you and you’re treating her with kid gloves and are going to hand her half a house?

Jesus. Fúcking. Wept, p.

[redgunamo]

So she’s a raging narcissist/psychopath who made your life hell, she’s threatening you with all manner of mentalness, she cuckolded you and you’re treating her with kid gloves and are going to hand her half a house?

Jesus. Fúcking. Wept, p.

It's no surprise really. People lacking sincere and straightforward goals are capable of any kind of nonsense. Because it doesn't matter, nothing matters.

[Peter]

So she’s a raging narcissist/psychopath who made your life hell, she’s threatening you with all manner of mentalness, she cuckolded you and you’re treating her with kid gloves and are going to hand her half a house?

Jesus. Fúcking. Wept, p.

Well, that is one way of looking at it. Her version would clearly be very different.

We've both wanted out for years and she didnt really do anything other than meet someone else, and she did tell me about it. We agreed to split and that I would leave.

Unfortunately, by the time I was ready to leave she had changed her mind and realised she was ****ed without me.

Hence the ensuing begging, pleading, threats etc......

[IUFG]

Well, that is one way of looking at it. Her version would clearly be very different.

We've both wanted out for years and she didnt really do anything other than meet someone else, and she did tell me about it. We agreed to split and that I would leave.

Unfortunately, by the time I was ready to leave she had changed her mind and realised she was ****ed without me.

Hence the ensuing begging, pleading, threats etc......

Fúck me, p.

You really have been played here.
And christ, I'm agreeing with b a lot today, you've been cuckolded.

Are your kidneys ok?
There has been a lot of píss taken...

[PSRB]

Well, that is one way of looking at it. Her version would clearly be very different.

We've both wanted out for years and she didnt really do anything other than meet someone else, and she did tell me about it. We agreed to split and that I would leave.

Unfortunately, by the time I was ready to leave she had changed her mind and realised she was ****ed without me.

Hence the ensuing begging, pleading, threats etc......

As with a lit firework, never go back. I have the scar to remind me.....of not going back to an ex, not a firework

[Peter]

Fúck me, p.

You really have been played here.
And christ, I'm agreeing with b a lot today, you've been cuckolded.

Are your kidneys ok?
There has been a lot of píss taken...

Oh, im not arguing with you. I think she genuinely believed that I would just put up with it, or believe they were 'just friends' . She is sooooooo bad at lying it was almost funny at times.

When I told her I was definitely leaving she just didnt believe it, or at that point didnt care.

It was only once I actually left that she woke up and appreciated what was happening.

Even now she is begging me to come back despite the fact that we cannot stand each other.

[Peter]

As with a lit firework, never go back. I have the scar to remind me.....of not going back to an ex, not a firework

Agreed. I mean, I have been desperate to get out for years but even if it had been great there is no way I would go back. Its madness.

[Viva Prat Vegas]

When were you last happy , Peter?
:-(

[Burney]

Well, that is one way of looking at it. Her version would clearly be very different.

We've both wanted out for years and she didnt really do anything other than meet someone else, and she did tell me about it. We agreed to split and that I would leave.

Unfortunately, by the time I was ready to leave she had changed her mind and realised she was ****ed without me.

Hence the ensuing begging, pleading, threats etc......

Let me guess: lover boy has fúcked off sharpish when things got serious? And you’re picking up the pieces?

My dear old chap, step back and take a long hard look at this situation.

[IUFG]

Oh, im not arguing with you. I think she genuinely believed that I would just put up with it, or believe they were 'just friends' . She is sooooooo bad at lying it was almost funny at times.

When I told her I was definitely leaving she just didnt believe it, or at that point didnt care.

It was only once I actually left that she woke up and appreciated what was happening.

Even now she is begging me to come back despite the fact that we cannot stand each other.

This is why, for the life of me, I can't believe you are going to be so overly generous towards here, in a financial sense.

She's ridden roughshod over you for years and seen you merely as a meal ticket; and your exit strategy is to reinforce her beliefs and prove her right.

Wait 'til the money runs out and she'll come back looking for you. And you'll only have half of what you should have.
Seens, p, seens :cry:

[Peter]

Let me guess: lover boy has fúcked off sharpish when things got serious? And you’re picking up the pieces?

My dear old chap, step back and take a long hard look at this situation.

Lover boy was never actually interested at all. She only actually saw him twice, in a pub. He was lying to her about absolutely everything. He ****ed off when she rang him a bit pissed and he saw a bit of the madness come out. I left a couple of days later.

I know what you are all saying. The fact is i left, she is ****ed, and the only thing i can do to her now is stitch her up over the house. Im not willing to do that.....I'm just not.

[Peter]

This is why, for the life of me, I can't believe you are going to be so overly generous towards here, in a financial sense.

She's ridden roughshod over you for years and seen you merely as a meal ticket; and your exit strategy is to reinforce her beliefs and prove her right.

Wait 'til the money runs out and she'll come back looking for you. And you'll only have half of what you should have.
Seens, p, seens :cry:

Of course she will. I know that. The tragedy isnt that Im giving her half the money, its that she will waste it all.

Im just not willing to go back on my word.

[Burney]

Lover boy was never actually interested at all. She only actually saw him twice, in a pub. He was lying to her about absolutely everything. He ****ed off when she rang him a bit pissed and he saw a bit of the madness come out. I left a couple of days later.

I know what you are all saying. The fact is i left, she is ****ed, and the only thing i can do to her now is stitch her up over the house. Im not willing to do that.....I'm just not.

This is what comes of socialism, p. You end up subsidising the undeserving poor. :-(

But experience has taught me there’s no point trying to come beteeen a man and his self-image, so I genuinely wish you the best. :-)

[IUFG]

Lover boy was never actually interested at all. She only actually saw him twice, in a pub. He was lying to her about absolutely everything. He ****ed off when she rang him a bit pissed and he saw a bit of the madness come out. I left a couple of days later.

I know what you are all saying. The fact is i left, she is ****ed, and the only thing i can do to her now is stitch her up over the house. Im not willing to do that.....I'm just not.

P, please, for the love of Dennis, have a word with yourself.

[IUFG]

Of course she will. I know that. The tragedy isnt that Im giving her half the money, its that she will waste it all.

Im just not willing to go back on my word.

Think to the future.

What will your next gl g/p/w think of this situation?

[Peter]

P, please, for the love of Dennis, have a word with yourself.

Its only money. I will be pretty well off without her leeching off me.

All I care about is getting that house sold and getting the two of us completely de coupled.

[Peter]

Think to the future.

What will your next gl g/p/w think of this situation?

I wasnt intending to talk them through it. I lived with a nutter, i left. End of story.

[IUFG]

I wasnt intending to talk them through it. I lived with a nutter, i left. End of story.

Good luck to you, p.

If there was a such a thing as heaven. you might have stood a chance of being admitted.

[Burney]

I wasnt intending to talk them through it. I lived with a nutter, i left. End of story.

Christ! You’re not thinking of getting involved with another one, are you?
At your time of life and with your track record, I seriously think it might be time to consider getting another hobby.

[Herbert Augustus Chapman]

Stayed with a woman three years after I knew I wanted out. She kept me there with suicide threats. Then one day a friend of hers said "just leave - she won't do it". So I did ... and she didn't.

[IUFG]

Christ! You’re not thinking of getting involved with another one, are you?
At your time of life and with your track record, I seriously think it might be time to consider getting another hobby.

a man cannot go through life alone; knocking one out through tears, on a single bed in a damp bed sit, b.

[Viva Prat Vegas]

Siadwell did

[Burney]

I wasnt intending to talk them through it. I lived with a nutter, i left. End of story.


a man cannot go through life alone; knocking one out through tears, on a single bed in a damp bed sit, b.

I suppose. As Harold Wilson said of Edward Heath’s unmarried status: “Poor Ted. When he gets home he’s got no-one to abuse but himself.”

[Peter]

Christ! You’re not thinking of getting involved with another one, are you?
At your time of life and with your track record, I seriously think it might be time to consider getting another hobby.

Well..... there is someone but.....no, not yet. A bit further down the line, perhaps....

[redgunamo]

This is what comes of socialism, p. You end up subsidising the undeserving poor. :-(

But experience has taught me there’s no point trying to come beteeen a man and his self-image, so I genuinely wish you the best. :-)

Yes, that's probably what's going on here.

Fair enough. As he says, money doesn't really matter. Nobody appreciates the value of it nowadays anyway.

[Ash]

I suppose. As Harold Wilson said of Edward Heath’s unmarried status: “Poor Ted. When he gets home he’s got no-one to abuse but himself.”

And all those boys supplied from the children's homes, of course.

Allegedly.

[redgunamo]

Stayed with a woman three years after I knew I wanted out. She kept me there with suicide threats. Then one day a friend of hers said "just leave - she won't do it". So I did ... and she didn't.

Oh? Never took you for a narcissist, H.