Talking of dismal, are you alright, old chap? You've gone a bit quiet.

[Berni]

[Sir Charlie of Nicholas]

Go on ds. Give him some.

[Berni]

[dismalswamp]

[dismalswamp]

..thought that she wasn't really in her right mind.

I'd either have expected an 'oh I didn't realize' or a 'back the f**k off'

I got nothing so am I to assume he is scared of what I might do?

[Berni]

bunch of other problems.

[Sir Charlie of Nicholas]

It's tough at the moment, but it will improve, honestly.

[dismalswamp]

on a night out. it was an out and out brainwashing. the motherf**king c**t!

[dismalswamp]

[Sir Charlie of Nicholas]

The Good Lord will deal with him. In the meantime, you can make this an opportunity to make an even better life than you had before.

[redgunamo]

[Supermac1976]

Or play the blues.
http://i13.photobucket.com/albums/a284/bababababirdman/StevenSeagul.jpg

[Berni]

It's 'women's problems'. :-(

[dismalswamp]

Pre Menstrual Dimorphic Disorder. It's similar to a bipolar condition but hormonal. She was never referred but left to rot on Prozac for 2 years before crashing off it.....

[Berni]

Of course your pride hurts, but there are more important things than that to worry about.

[redgunamo]

[Supermac1976]

[redgunamo]

[Supermac1976]

[Sir Charlie of Nicholas]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rcxfF07rqgY

[Berni]

[redgunamo]

[dismalswamp]

[Jake]

[dismalswamp]

[Berni]

[Sir Charlie of Nicholas]

Life is a remarkable thing. With a bit of prompting it tends to work out for the best.

Keep fighting, keep trying, all will be well.

[Supermac1976]

[Berni]

positions rather than help everyone move forward.

[Sir Charlie of Nicholas]

[Berni]

[dismalswamp]

[Sir Charlie of Nicholas]

[eastgermanautos]

Is anybody going stand up for the rules of grammar in this burgh?! :cocks his six-shooter:

[71 Guns - channeling the spirit of Mr Hat]

could put her at risk. It's tough but things will get better.

[Berni]

[Sir Charlie of Nicholas]

[Supermac1976]

That was very :cry: on Saturday.
It's up to series 5, but Netflix has the earlier ones it's worth watching.

[dismalswamp]

wife out of the house to stop the kids going into care. This girl picked me up from all that, saved me and we were very happy for a long time before this happened out of the blue.
Currently i'm lost, i'm going to bed at about 9pm as we did and watched everything together. I've literally got nothing to do and everything is spoiled. I'm hoping that i'll come out of this gloom soon because i'm not coping well at all.

[Berni]

[Sir Charlie of Nicholas]

[Berni]

Wallowing - although inevitable - will only make it worse.

[Sir Charlie of Nicholas]

work in to make a new life.

Internet dating is your friend. What a time to be alive!

[Berni]

Not that I would now, of course. I'm not that much of a glutton for punishment.

[Supermac1976]

http://imgur.com/gallery/IuKwG
http://p2e.mobi/wp-content/uploads/audrey-fleurot-4.jpg

[Sir Charlie of Nicholas]

It must be a truly target-rich environment.

[redgunamo]

It pays well too.

[Berni]

before you even meet. Just pitch up, see if you like each other, see if you fancy each other and - if so - Bob's your uncle. Must be great. I was born twenty years too early. :-(

[Ghost of Highbury]

And I predict you are going to be alright old chap.

You must must must take the advice of the good men of awimb and sort yourself out an internet dating profile.

I'm telling you that's what all single women do these days. Yes, even the hot ones.

Make it a decent photo and tell the truth about yourself. You will get nights out, get lucky and maybe even find someone that makes you forget all about this current heartache.

I used to work for a singles night so everything I've said is absolutely true!

ps - if you can get a mate to do a profile as well - then you can go for beers and swap stories.

[Sir Charlie of Nicholas]

Fully shaven? Tick.

[dismalswamp]

didn't get any, just a blank refusal to say anything. no explanation, nothing. no concern for my daughter or waht she'd done to me. unbelievable.

[Berni]

probably not.

The sex ones probably have that info. And stuff like knob size, favourite kinks and all sorts, probably.

[Supermac1976]

Amazing amount of lasses up for a bit of slap & tickle, I may have even met up with a belly dancer but the fun was curtailed when I matched with one of the wife's mates.

[Berni]

the one doing the confronting all the time, you look like the slightly deranged one, which is never a good look.

[Sir Charlie of Nicholas]

Late 30s solvent male, own hair and several teeth, enjoys travel, walks and curling up by the fire with a bottle of wine and a good romcom, seeks woman, any age, must be fully shaven. No plumpers need apply.

[Berni]

[redgunamo]

Women move in mysterious ways, their wonders to perform; we all know that, so there's never any point asking them to explain anything really.

[Sir Charlie of Nicholas]

Did she bubble you up?

[Supermac1976]

saw each other

[mr egg and dart]

I feel sorry for the little girl involved, but not for you!

Eventually you will find somebody who will make your life all sunny again. That will happen...it always did with me. Time is a marvelous healer.

As far as the 'other' guy involved...I wouldn't waste your time on him by sending him emails or planning any form of GBH on him. It's his problem now and she just might do the same to him as she did to you.

If it makes you feel better, last January I was given 1-2 yrs left to live because of heart disease. Try swallowing that pill!

[redgunamo]

had your chance and if you haven't said and done what needed to be said and done, you can't blame the voters.

Something like that anyway. I can't do his accent, of course.

[dismalswamp]

years back having diagnosed herself with this PMDD. The quack left her to rot on prozac and didn't refer her to a specialist to balance her hormones properly. This last year she's been all over the place 'girl stuff' wise so i think that she's goint through the change quite early. Crashing off the prozac led to an incident at her work and i think that coupled with the change of life and the PMDD has really fried her brain.
When we met up to discuss our future after she walked out, after leaving me hanging for a fortnight she went bloody clothes shopping halfway through, and when i found out about the Space Mong she turned on me, blaming me for everything and has since cut off all contact with me and my daughter.
My GP suggested she is somewhat bipolar as she's done all the usual things in the usual order, starting on a high, then the cheating, running away, disconnect from reality and the cutting off. A week prior to this i was 'her favorite person in the whole world' and she 'would look after me forever'. She loved my daughter as her own and did everything for her. She'd also re-arranged loads of shifts to come on a family holiday with my parents, quite a lot of hassle and swapping, paperwork etc. This leads me to believe that none of this was planned and it happened on a whim after this c**t told her what she wanted to hear on the few occasions that they met.
That is why i feel how i do, something doesn't add up at all.

[dismalswamp]

I'd saved up all this overtime for an engagement ring at christmas so i'm double f**ked up.

[Berni]

you'll be waiting and waiting for something that may never happen - and in the meantime you won't move on with your life. You have to proceed on the basis that she won't come to her senses and move forward yourself. If she decides it was all a terrible mistake and she wants to get back with you then that's another question for another time, but you trying to make it happen won't work, as it has to be her that does it.

At the moment you're still stuck in the 'bargaining' and 'depression' stages of grief. You need to get to acceptance as soon as possible.

[dismalswamp]

[redgunamo]

I reckon it's the way you pick 'em. That's twice now, isn't it :-

As other lads have said, it's about you and your kid now. Take control of what you can and the hell with everything else.

[dismalswamp]

princess. i ran her all over the place and cooked every damn meal, proper cooking too not smiley faces and fish fingers. it all counts for nothing though in the end.
i am pretty pathetic and would be over the moon if she came back now.

[mr egg and dart]

Flog the ring and forget about her.

Chin up and soldier on.