Tai Lopez
04-11-2014, 02:55 PM
The other day, I set off for work leaving my wife in the house watching the TV as usual. I hadn't driven more than a mile down the road when the engine conked out and the car shuddered to a halt. I walked back home to get my wife's help. When I got home I couldn't believe my eyes. she was in our bedroom with the neighbours son. I am 44, my wife is 34, and the neighbours son is 22. We have been married for ten years.
When I confronted her, she broke down and admitted that they had been having an affair for the past six months. I told her to stop or I would leave her. She was let go from his job six months ago and he says he has been feeling increasingly depressed and worthless. I love her very much, but ever since I gave her the ultimatum he has become increasingly distant. She won't go to counselling and I'm afraid I can't get through to her anymore.
If she leaves me for him I won't be able to look after our two young children and keep up my job, so I will become dependant upon the state, and that is something I am desperate not to do.
I thought we had a good sex life, and although not as frequent as in our younger days, I didn't know she was unhappy. I keep the house clean and tidy , and prepare the meals as she likes them. she always has clean, ironed clothes, and we go out quite regularly to concerts or for a meal. I though our life was perfect.
This other bloke concerned is so much younger and more attractive than me, I feel I can't compete with him, and although I keep in shape, having had two children, my body is not what it once was. I never realised he felt this way about me though, and I now find myself looking in the mirror and not liking what I see. I am so depressed I may just take a few pills and end it all. I don't know what to do.
Can you please help?
When I confronted her, she broke down and admitted that they had been having an affair for the past six months. I told her to stop or I would leave her. She was let go from his job six months ago and he says he has been feeling increasingly depressed and worthless. I love her very much, but ever since I gave her the ultimatum he has become increasingly distant. She won't go to counselling and I'm afraid I can't get through to her anymore.
If she leaves me for him I won't be able to look after our two young children and keep up my job, so I will become dependant upon the state, and that is something I am desperate not to do.
I thought we had a good sex life, and although not as frequent as in our younger days, I didn't know she was unhappy. I keep the house clean and tidy , and prepare the meals as she likes them. she always has clean, ironed clothes, and we go out quite regularly to concerts or for a meal. I though our life was perfect.
This other bloke concerned is so much younger and more attractive than me, I feel I can't compete with him, and although I keep in shape, having had two children, my body is not what it once was. I never realised he felt this way about me though, and I now find myself looking in the mirror and not liking what I see. I am so depressed I may just take a few pills and end it all. I don't know what to do.
Can you please help?