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Ashberto
12-19-2013, 02:51 PM
as it made her skin darker, and she preferred it lighter. She then went on to explain in quite strong terms how she hated dark skin, and how she didn't like her boyfriend at first who was from India because he had very dark skin.

Sitting next to her, with much darker skin, was another Indian-descended woman, and a Jamaican-descended woman with very dark skin indeed. :- I don't know what they thought of this outburst / expression of aesthetic preferences as to try and avoid hearing any more of it I concentrated on intensifying the discussion I was having with my Macedonian colleague about the history, politics and conflicts in the former Yugoslavia.

Anyway, can it be racist if an English Sikh rails about hating brown skin? Has anyone else experienced this?

Sir Charlie of Nicholas
12-19-2013, 02:56 PM
that my trip was taking me on to Kerala.

"Those people from the south!" he cried, face distorted with disgust. "They're so dark!" And then, with a mournful shake of the head, "And they eat so much riiiice!"

I didn't care to point out to him that he was, even as he spoke, shovelling rice into his yap hole at a rate of knots.

Classic Jorge
12-19-2013, 03:01 PM
I think you'll find that whole skin colour business matters, if anything, even more to your effnicks.

I had the joy recently of sharing a table with a very drunk african who said he didnt want to sit with the opposite table as it was "full of mulatos and cane cutters".

I quite like the fact that just about everyone is capable of utterly vile racism. I know it's not the sort of equality people had in mind but..

PSRB
12-19-2013, 03:02 PM

Snin
12-19-2013, 03:03 PM
at te hong kong office the chinks put a face mask on in the office when the indian delivery bloke came in .. :yikes: and wouldnt touch him..get too close , wouldpile the boxes on a table for him then move away

Classic Jorge
12-19-2013, 03:05 PM
The african one, well that's much more complex.

That's without delving into the intra-island racism of the west indies.

redgunamo
12-19-2013, 03:08 PM

Red N White Army
12-19-2013, 03:08 PM
Lighter skin is deemed more acceptable (by other Indians)and more likely to be successful. Bonkers imo

Ashberto
12-19-2013, 03:10 PM
looking-down-noses thing but for an educated, middle-class English girl to say this, and in front of black and dark south asian people seemed extraordinary.

I presume it is her personally, rather than some notion of the cultural anti-racism here not applying itself to some light-skinned Asian people.

PSRB
12-19-2013, 03:11 PM

Sir Charlie of Nicholas
12-19-2013, 03:12 PM
from a friend of v's who's an educated British Indian.

Classic Jorge
12-19-2013, 03:12 PM
In the US theyve been calling them Native Americans for years

Snin
12-19-2013, 03:14 PM

Ashberto
12-19-2013, 03:15 PM
"are you going to see your family in Trinidad again this Christmas?"

Classic Jorge
12-19-2013, 03:16 PM
No wonder he was so keen to change the subject to ethnic cleansing in Sarajevo

Ashberto
12-19-2013, 03:20 PM
A continuation of the work his grandfather did fighting for the Partizans.

Ashberto
12-19-2013, 03:23 PM
Goebbels-esque bull****.

redgunamo
12-19-2013, 03:26 PM

redgunamo
12-19-2013, 03:31 PM

Ashberto
12-19-2013, 03:32 PM
but it says, right up there "Indian-descended", and not Indian.

The majority of young ethnic-asians have been born here, as has been the case for many years which makes them English/British, or UKish to not leave out our chums in Norn Iron.

Anyway, you'll doubtless claim to be waving your silly fishing rod around now, so :vsign:

Snin
12-19-2013, 03:36 PM
or such...skim reading ash skim reading. But at what point would one not even mention indian descended and not just say british ? its a bit insulting to try and say/guess where her roots are from ? if she white english dad, indian mum is she still indian descended ? how far back do we go ? i would just say british imo.. but im probably a bit less racist than you.
















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redgunamo
12-19-2013, 03:40 PM

Ashberto
12-19-2013, 03:44 PM
They're from Leicester.