All joking aside, if you can't stop yourself staring at a woman despite the fact that you might be making her feel uncomfortable, you need to take a long look in a mirror and decide whether you might need some psychological assistance. Because rank ill-manners are not excused because you think you're some sort of stud.
Women who like being stared at (and there are a great many) dress in a way that makes you want to stare at them. Those that don't, don't.
I used to sit behind the departmental secretary who was very fit and wore something tight fitting and short skirts as a matter of habit. She seemed to spend the better part of the day trying to catch men looking at her. Got sacked, ultimately. Shame.
What chance do I have? I have composed very salacious, albeit very excellent, poetry about Nigella's big hairy, pungent lubricious fanny piece - oh Christ .. tissues!
Agreed. A gentleman learns how to do it without them noticing. Of course, they know you are looking (and some of them actually like it) but it is rather rude and creepy to openly stare.
But sorry...the day we stop looking is the day we die. All of us. The end of civilisation itself.
Breasts are wonderful things. They create and sustain life.