Quote Originally Posted by Herbert Augustus Chapman View Post
evacuate the bloody thing, it fills with pus again in a matter of hours.

I wondered if I might Skype a demonstration with you so you can proffer a diagnosis. It is very difficult for me to see the thing as I don't have eyes in the back of my head, of course.
Do you mean actually on the sphincter? Is it painful when your boyfriend is poling away at your ring?