Aware there are many others in far worse situations, but would be interested to hear what people would do if they had to deal with my old man and his specific ill-equippedness to confront all of this.
He lives alone, works fulltime in Central London in a retail store, but simply will not cope with being off work for any length of time, and certainly not if he's required to adopt any significant level of isolation. I don't think a daily walk in the park will be enough to get him through even a few weeks, let alone months.
He's always teetered on the brink but has had *just* enough going on in his life to compensate for an almost entire lack of hobbies besides Arsenal. But without football, the daily routine of work, or the respite of seeing family (and particularly his grandkids) on weekends, I'm almost certain he won't have enough anchors to keep him from falling into a rapid depression and wherever that then leads.
Talking to him is futile. He's unable to process this kind of event in the same way as a normal, functioning adult and it's only his sheer ignorance of the situation (he's still maintaining it's all a fuss about nothing) that is keeping the black dog from barking.
What to do?
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