Quote Originally Posted by Burney View Post
Yes. I think the problem arose when the desire to whop it up another chap's chuffbox became seen not simply as a sexual proclivity, but as an entire 'lifestyle'.
It's odd, really. We do not seek to make a lifestyle out of other perversions, after all. We don't talk about the 'auto-asphyxiation community', have magazines like 'Foot Fetishist Times' or see marches for 'Bestiality Pride', do we?
Fundamentally, if you'll forgive the pun, a chap who wishes to put his peter in another man's dung isn't quite the thing, is he? Now we, as gentlemen, are inclined to allow a fellow his quirks, so long as he keeps them discreet. A man might wear brown shoes in town, for example - one wouldn't ostracise him for it, so long as he only did it the once and didn't draw attention to it.