That's very noble, P, with respect, foolhardy, but noble.
What was the reason you refused to get married? IYDMMA
she has threatened to ring my mum but doesnt have her number. My mum would tell her to **** right off anyway, no problem there.
Work know all about it and security have been warned. My bosses know all about it and are expecting horrible emails etc
I am not overly concerned about that. Its embarrassing but inevitable.