I wasnt being entirely serious.
How does Sir C feel about the term Airplane?
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I thought that was quite funny actually, when he thanked you for mansplaining. And stop oppressing Monty by saying she can't be a woman.
Perhaps there's another reason for knees getting touched beyond power and the 'clumsy move' - it might be sensually pleasurable in itself, enhanced by the forbidden nature of the act.
I did once hold a woman's hand because she was trembling and in fear for her life- to be fair, someone had just tried to kill her with a hammer.
I received a verbal, fairly friendly warning to 'watch myself' in future. She wrote me a thank you letter for a)saving her life and b) comforting her in a moment of outright terror.
I got off lightly there.
The warning was from a colleague who thought my actions were 'risky'. THe woman squeezed hold of my hand like she was giving birth. I thought it was a justified and appropriate offer of comfort. In my defence, I hadn't been trained in 'rape culture' in those days.
Also worth pointing out that I did NOT save her life. Two large chaps on their way back from the gym saved her by dragging the hammer-wielding lunatic off her.