It's no surprise really. People lacking sincere and straightforward goals are capable of any kind of nonsense. Because it doesn't matter, nothing matters.
Well, that is one way of looking at it. Her version would clearly be very different.
We've both wanted out for years and she didnt really do anything other than meet someone else, and she did tell me about it. We agreed to split and that I would leave.
Unfortunately, by the time I was ready to leave she had changed her mind and realised she was ****ed without me.
Hence the ensuing begging, pleading, threats etc......
Oh, im not arguing with you. I think she genuinely believed that I would just put up with it, or believe they were 'just friends' . She is sooooooo bad at lying it was almost funny at times.
When I told her I was definitely leaving she just didnt believe it, or at that point didnt care.
It was only once I actually left that she woke up and appreciated what was happening.
Even now she is begging me to come back despite the fact that we cannot stand each other.
When were you last happy , Peter?
:-(
This is why, for the life of me, I can't believe you are going to be so overly generous towards here, in a financial sense.
She's ridden roughshod over you for years and seen you merely as a meal ticket; and your exit strategy is to reinforce her beliefs and prove her right.
Wait 'til the money runs out and she'll come back looking for you. And you'll only have half of what you should have.
Seens, p, seens :cry:
Lover boy was never actually interested at all. She only actually saw him twice, in a pub. He was lying to her about absolutely everything. He ****ed off when she rang him a bit pissed and he saw a bit of the madness come out. I left a couple of days later.
I know what you are all saying. The fact is i left, she is ****ed, and the only thing i can do to her now is stitch her up over the house. Im not willing to do that.....I'm just not.