:nod: All the people I've known who've been adopted have been a bit fücked up about it imo.
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It's alright once they get older - but in the early years adopted kids are invariably violent and impossible to socialise because of whatever traumas they suffered under their biological parents.
I mean, my kids are being brought up in the leafy middle class environs of Hampstead with two blissfully happy and successful parents, and every single day I amaze myself that I've not killed at least one of them. So I can only imagine what it's like to have to care for a truly dysfunctional child who doesn't even share my DNA.
I know a couple with adopted kids. I've tried to chat to the boy, aged around 7, and literally all he does is hiss at me. I basically don't bother any more.
Ooh, you wouldn't want one that's any older than toddler age, would you? Christ knows what's happened to them. Damaged goods.
And let's be honest, while there are obviously many examples of intelligent and successful adoptees, the odds are that they're not going to come of particularly good stock. I've known people who wouldn't buy a dog without knowing its lineage, so the idea of adopting a human with absolutely zero idea of what kind of horrors lurk in its DNA seems enormously risky.
As you know, I too have no problem with the homos. It doesnt matter to me where a chap chooses to bury his treasure.
that said, I do find it incredibly boring when they feel the need to talk about it incessantly and allow themselves to be defined by it. Imagine how boring straight men. Are when they do nothing but talk about 'pulling birds' and how much fanny they get.
I am quite comfortable being around bum bandits but the accent and affectation is quite frankly ****ing annoying. the sheer fabulousness of it all.
Yes. I think the problem arose when the desire to whop it up another chap's chuffbox became seen not simply as a sexual proclivity, but as an entire 'lifestyle'.
It's odd, really. We do not seek to make a lifestyle out of other perversions, after all. We don't talk about the 'auto-asphyxiation community', have magazines like 'Foot Fetishist Times' or see marches for 'Bestiality Pride', do we?