Does those creepy uncles who tickle you a bit too much count?
not in rude places but just excessive.
Does those creepy uncles who tickle you a bit too much count?
not in rude places but just excessive.
I must admit I have started to have a few moments where I have questioned why nobody ever touched me. Was I not good enough for the nonces? At least you got over tickled by your "uncle". It does seem as though I am in the minority in having a childhood with no abuse.
I had a teacher cuddle me 'to keep warm' rather too enthusiastically on a chair lift while on a school skiing trip. Oh, and there was the other one who used to 'check we'd showered properly', but other than those minor incidents, I grew up in the noncetastic 70s and 80s pretty much un-fiddled :-(
Similar scenario in my mid 80s educational voyage, a form teacher who took it upon himself to make sure we showered properly.
Also made himself liked by handing out free cigarettes and on the odd occasion booze.
Now this lad was a Christian Brother so quite clearly (in hindsight) a nonce but to the best of my knowledge he never touched a pupil’s ***** nor buggered them for kicks.
:nod: 'Blob' Shuttleworth, for example, used to touch a chap's bottom with the flat of his hand, given half a chance. I suppose that today it would be classed as sexual assault, but it didn't seem like an assault. It felt like Blob's little pecadillo which one avoided if at all possible. Nothing to get a chap excited, in therapy, or even arrested.