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By her own standards, then yes. She's pretty much admitted to shoving a finger up a bloke's arse without his consent. Granted, she seems to be saying that she immediately withdrew it when he complained, but "rape is rape", right?
I was once seeing a girl who had told me that she absolutely freaks the fúck out when anyone touches her neck. During an intimate moment curiosity got the better of me.
She wasn't lying :-(
I think that's a scurrilous and libellous suggestion, especially given you know damn well that Monty has done no such thing.
Just because he was brave enough to confide in us that he once sucked a ladyboy's cock gives you no excuse to level blanket accusations of homosexual deviances against him.
The odd exploratory finger here or there during the act is not 'rape' or 'sexual assault', it's just part of having sex. Life would be rather joyless if we had to memorise a list each other's do's or don'ts that had been established beforehand.
Mind you, the strangling thing was odd. She'd stop when asked, but once she'd got back into it, she'd absent-mindedly start strangling one again. It was really quite irritating.
But that was your wife b and it was nothing to do with lovemaking, she was simply trying to kill you.